Songs for atheists
I didn't know Steve Martin could sing . . .
~~Angie



I'm ordering mine right now!
Love it, love it! I sent this link to all the guys I know with "selective deafness" and scambled femlogic cells. :)
Thanks for the laugh, Angie!
Angie


Two days after Christmas, and nearly all of the time,
The house remained silent, until about nine.
So I in my pj’s crept back to the laundry,
To see why my husband was in such a quandary.
Then I heard noises from behind the wall—
Thumps, bumps, and fast scratching ‘cause the rat had been stalled.
I heard ratty muttering, steel wool being ripped
From the places I’d stuffed it—the rat was having a fit!
Silent, I watched—my heart beginning to flounder--
Would the insulation hold? Or would we have an encounter?
“What will you do?” Hubby asked, his face all a-grin,
I closed the door. “I’m shutting him in!”
This morning I crept up, flashlight in hand,
To peer at the rat hole and prepare to scram,
But the spray foam held—it was hard as rock.
It protected my laundry room just like a lock.
The thing that concerns me and arouses my dread—
Is if the rat will be trapped and soon find himself dead.
In that case, I wonder, I shudder to think
He’ll be trapped in my wall and then start to stink.
So go, nasty rat, run back to your home,
And leave me and my house forever alone.

Rodents in walls stink very badly, yours unfortunately is much larger than the mouse we had behind our wall once. And that little mouse caused a very big stink.
Funny how one person's pest is another's joy. Our son Kyle has had at least 6 rats as pets while growing up. And even his mother, my wife Claudia, has learned to enjoy the clean, intelligent and loving traits of these small animals. And yes, today at the age of 28 and married, Kyle has 2 rats....named Claudia and Carol....after his mother and mother-in-law.



That was awesome! You are so funny!
What a hoot. It's not funny when it's happening though is it?
When life hands you lemons, make lemonade> Glad you can joke about it now. It's great, reading about it.
Tip o' the hat to you, Angie. Sorry for your "wildlife." You handle it with your customary aplomb--and a poem, too! (I, on the other hand, was freaking out at ants and termites visiting! Hope I'm more like you when I grow up. LOL)
Hope your situation is resolved.
Blessings--and peace for the new year!
Mary Kay
Such a sight is the rat at night
who seeks to find his home
within your clothes of life.
Such rodents we fear,
especially when we know they're near;
and can't be seen! Except,
for their presents left behind.
Here and there, little reminders,
scattered about and within our life.
For, such it is, these assailants of the night
find delight in the warmth of the whites.
I feel with you, as I once lived in Florida State too. For me, worst thing, it's the spiders!
Such is Florida State.... In my five years spent in various locations, I choose to think of the good things and not the marauders. But one does do well in going through the steps to keep the two worlds apart. Thank goodness humans are still larger creatures!
Suzanne McMillen-Fallon, Published Author (available early 2011)
http://www.strategicpublishinggroup.com/title/Mommy’s Writings.html (currently not active)
Been there and done that, too! I killed 6 (yes, I said "six"!) mice in one day in my dining room/kitchen. Over the span of a week, I think we killed about 15 mice just in our apartment. The exterminator said there was a nest between the walls and he couldn't get what was left of the family. It was quite a long time before the scratching sounds went away. Ugh.
Love it. Don't love your situation, but love your attitude about it.
I feel your pain. We have one living somewhere, but we can't find out where! I blame the ivy the hubs planted in the back yard. The rat explores the deck at night for tidbits the dog might have left. Since the deck is close to my bedroom window, it wakes me up.
I love living in the outskirts of civilization ... except for the natives.



Hi Angie - I won a Kindle just before Christmas - yay - are any of your adult books "kindleized"? Marcia Laycock
Congratulations, Marcia. And yes, tons of my books have been Kindle-ized. Just look in the Kindle store!
This is great news, Angie! I have a question about "Kindleizing" books - what is the process involved? Does the author or publisher initiate the process? On CBD's website you can request that a book be put in Kindle form, but I wonder what happens to that request - does it really go someplace where that can be done? I've requested a few be put on Kindle, but I haven't seen any results. I love my Kindle and want to see more and more of my favorite authors on there!
Good question, Lynda. Any book that is still in print with a publisher has to be "Kindle-ized" by the publisher--IF the publisher bought e book rights (and most of them do these days).
For older books--if the rights have reverted to the author, the author can easily Kindle-ize their books. It's just a matter of cleaning up the file, uploading it, etc. The author can also set the price on older books he or she uploads.
But for newer books, the price and the process are in the hands of the publisher until the book goes out of print. A lot of publishers don't want to put books out of print these days because even if they run out of paper books, they can always sell ebook editions. Methinks this will soon be standard operating procedure, and I'm not sure how I feel about it. As an author, I like having control of my older titles.
The times, they are a-changing!
Angie
This is good news for our younger readers!
And thanks Lynda and Angie for asking and answering my question. Perhaps if the standard practice becomes not letting books go out of print, publishers will change the way they compensate authors? I can see where being caught under older-style contracts while publishers enter a new season would be hard. I have similar feelings when I sign an "all rights" contract for a short story. :-( Still, God is good.
Now that your train book is heading to publication, Angie, do you have another you're working on? (Can't we readers give you any rest?!)
Blessings,
Mary Kay
Publishing houses should not be so greedy,if they let books go out of print authors should get back control . The Colonial Captives series sounds great ,maybe I will read them too , just like I have read the " Little House On The Prairie " series as an adult .
I wish I knew what I'd be doing next, Mary Kay. I have several ideas, but I'm waiting for an idea to stand up and say, "Write me next!" Plus, I have to run it by my editor.
But in the mean time, I'm working on my theology components--doing exegesis of key verses on key areas of theology. It's going to take a while. :-)
Angie


What does prayer do?
Prayer is talking to God. Sometimes, however, actual words are not needed, so prayer is thinking to God. When we pray, we focus on God and we open our hearts and minds so that we can clearly communicate with him.
Wait a minute—haven’t we said that God already knows our thoughts? Doesn’t he know our hearts even before we pray? Psalm 139 begins, “O Lord, you have examined my heart and know everything about me. You know when I sit down or stand up. You know my thoughts even when I’m far away . . . You know what I am going to say even before I say it, Lord.”
If God knows everything we think and feel, then why do we bother to pray? Because prayer is God’s way of helping us focus on him. We pray for our benefit, not God’s. He doesn’t need our prayers to know what we’re thinking . . . but sometimes we do. Prayer forces us to gather our thoughts and put our feelings into words, and then to take those thoughts and feelings and give them to God.
Why do we pray? We do not pray because God needs to know what we need. In Matthew 6:8, Jesus said, “Your Father knows exactly what you need even before you ask him!” We pray because God wants to fellowship with us, and he is happy when we bring our needs to him.
Let’s say you have a puppy that you love a lot. Your puppy needs food, water, toys, and companionship to be a happy dog. You know that he needs these things, and you’re happy to provide them because you love your puppy. If your puppy is like most dogs, he shows you his gratitude by greeting you at the door, wagging his tail, smiling at you, and sometimes simply by sitting and your feet and looking at you as if you’re the center of his world. A dog uses his eyes, his tail, and his body language to communicate his needs and his love.
What if your puppy stopped doing those things? What if he never met you at the door, never smiled at you, never even looked up when you came into the room. What if he never begged for a treat or wagged his tail when you fed him? What if he behaved as if you had suddenly ceased to exist? If he never “communicated” with you at all?
Unfortunately, this is how many people behave with God. God gives them air to breathe, food to eat, and more blessings than they can count, but they act as if he doesn’t exist. They never talk to him, never ask him for anything, and never thank him for the good things he’s done. They behave as though they’re responsible for the good things in their lives, or they’ll chalk their success up to “luck.”
Sorry, but luck has nothing to do with anything. God controls the world, and he wants his creations—men, women, children—to look up and communicate with him to the best of their ability. Maybe you’re not sure what words to use when you speak to God—that’s okay, because just like you understand the wag of your puppy’s tail, God understands your heart.
Pray because you want God to act. James 4:2 says, “You want what you don’t have, so you scheme and kill to get it. You are jealous of what others have, but you can’t get it, so you fight and wage war to take it from them. Yet you don’t have what you want because you don’t ask God for it. And even when you ask, you don’t get it because your motives are all wrong—you want only what will give you pleasure!”
Remember this—God has a plan for your life. Like an author, he has already laid out his plan. The psalmist says, “You saw me before I was born. Every day of my life was recorded in your book. Every moment was laid out before a single day had passed.”
Life would be simple if we knew the end of our story, wouldn’t it? If we could read God’s book and understand his plan, maybe we’d find life easier. If I had known, for instance, that God wanted me to be a writer, maybe I wouldn’t have taken all those music lessons.
But—God’s plan for me involved those music lessons. I’ve written books about musicians, and the work was easier because I did take piano and voice lessons. So even the things I now might consider a waste of time have a purpose in God’s plan!
When we pray for things that are in God’s plan for our life, he often brings them to pass immediately. Sometimes he makes us wait before he answers those prayers. If we have to wait, we can grow in maturity and wisdom before God acts.
When we pray for things that are not in God’s plan for our life, he says no. There’s a country song about a man who runs into an old girlfriend, and when he sees her, he thanks God for “unanswered prayers” . . . because he found another woman who became his wife.
Sometimes we pray for something and God lets us have it . . . along with the pain that something brings. Sometimes we pray for sick people who die . . . and we have to trust that God knows what he is doing even when what he’s doing makes no sense to us.
God uses prayer to change us. Since God is unchanging, the person most changed through prayer is US. When we pray, we recognize that God is the creator of the universe, and that he is the boss. If your prayer list looks more like a Christmas list for Santa Claus, you’re probably praying with the wrong attitude. Prayer isn’t about running down a list of things you want—prayer is telling God what you need and then asking him to work his will in your life.
How can you know if you’re using the right attitude when you pray? Jesus gave us the answer in Matthew 6. “When you pray,” he said, “don’t babble on and on as people of other religions do. They think their prayers are answered merely by repeating their words again and again. Don’t be like them, for your Father knows exactly what you need even before you ask him! Pray like this:
Our Father in heaven [acknowledge that God is your Father through Jesus]
may your name be kept holy. [acknowledge that God is the boss.]
May your Kingdom come soon. [focus your thoughts on heaven, not earth]
May your will be done on earth, [acknowledge that you want God’s plan most of all]
as it is in heaven.
Give us today the food we need, [ask for physical needs]
And forgive us our sins, [ask for spiritual needs]
As we have forgiven those who sin against us. [remember that you must forgive]
And don’t let us yield to temptation, [pray for spiritual strength]
but rescue us from the evil one.” [pray for spiritual protection]
When should you pray? Some religions pray five times a day, some three times a day, some once a day. How often should a Christian pray?
All the time! 1 Thess. 5:17 tells us, “Never stop praying.” This doesn’t mean that we walk around with our heads bowed and eyes closed, but it means that we shouldn’t give up! We should always be in a spirit of prayer; always aware that God is listening. And when you start praying for someone, don’t give up if God doesn’t answer right away. He has a purpose for delay, and you can trust him to always be working for your best.
What does it mean to “pray in Jesus’ name?” Some people think that to say, “In Jesus’ name, Amen” at the end of a prayer is like writing, “Sincerely yours, John” at the end of a letter. When we pray in Jesus’ name, we’re doing a lot more than being polite. We’re claiming a promise that’s found in John 14:13: “You can ask for anything in my name, and I will do it, so that the Son can bring glory to the Father.”
This does NOT mean that Jesus’ name is like a magic charm, and that by reciting “in Jesus’ name” you’ll magically get what you’ve prayed for. Instead, it means that you’re asking God for something because you belong to Jesus, so you’re asking on his authority.
If you were to go to my bank and ask for $100 from my account, they wouldn’t give it to you. They’d probably laugh at you. But if you were to give them a check with my name and signature on it, they’d give you the $100. Why? Because you would be demonstrating that you know me, and that I’ve given you permission to get the money.
In the same way, we can approach the Creator of the universe because we know Jesus and he’s given us permission to approach the almighty God. That’s why we pray in Jesus’ name.
Look at 1 John 5:13-15:
“I have written this to you who believe in the name of the Son of God, so that you may know you have eternal life. And we are confident that he hears us whenever we ask for anything that pleases him. And since we know he hears us when we make our requests, we also know that he will give us what we ask for.”
When we pray in Jesus’ name, we should be praying in the right attitude—in an attitude that pleases him. That means we aren’t praying selfishly, or for things to please only ourselves. We are asking for things that please him and are part of God’s plan for our lives. If we pray that way and ask for those things, Jesus promises that our prayers will be answered.
Memory Verse: “I have written this to you who believe in the name of the Son of God, so that you may know you have eternal life” (1 John 5:13).
Discussion questions:
1. Have you had a particular prayer answered? Tell us about it.
2. Have you been praying and asking for something that you haven’t yet received? Do you think you’re praying for something that pleases God? Why do you think God hasn’t answered yet?
3. Does God hear the prayers of people who don’t believe in Jesus? Discuss your opinions, then read John 14:6: “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one can come to the Father except through me.” (Obviously, God “hear” everything, but he has promised to answer only those who come to him through Jesus.)
4. When we are upset and don’t even know how to pray, do we have someone who will help us? To discover the answer, read Romans 8:26-27: “And the Holy Spirit helps us in our weakness. For example, we don’t know what God wants us to pray for. But the Holy Spirit prays for us with groanings that cannot be expressed in words. And the Father who knows all hearts knows what the Spirit is saying, for the Spirit pleads for us believers in harmony with God’s own will.”
Next week we’ll learn about some other helpers God has sent us!

Thanks for the Bible study. Good stuff. I love (it all!) Prov. 3:6 - "In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will direct your paths." I think that letting Him change my mindset and acknowledging Him, submitting, dwelling,snuggling, (my grandsons are here snuggling!) helps me to then pray His will. Still learning. Still willing.




This is so delightful, Angie. Thx for sharing! Jadyn and I watched "The Nativity Story" again yesterday. She requests a viewing every couple of months. Merry Christmas! Clyde
Precious. Thanks, Angie.
Christmas blessings,
Mary Kay


Got it. Loved it.
Have a joyous and blessed Christmas!
Enjoyed the spot on poem. And what a welcoming front door you have.
Christmas blessings to you and yours.
Mary Kay

Fiction 7: Christmas is all you dreamed of and more. No . . . truthfully, most Christmases never live up to our expectations. We watch too many feel-good movies, each one complete with a Christmas miracle, and then we wonder why our Christmases pale in comparison. The answer to this is simple: Expect nothing. Then everything that happens will be a blessing.
And remember this: you are not due a Christmas miracle, for the promised miracle happened 2,010 years ago. God kept the promise he made to Eve in the garden and sent a Redeemer, a man who would suffer as we suffer, feel what we feel, experience the joys and sorrows of the human condition. Yet this Redeemer would be fully God, and able not only to take the sins of the world on himself, but to offer the gift of eternal and abundant life to anyone who receives him. We enter into a covenant, or contract, with God, and we are promised salvation from hell and abundant life. In return, we surrender our lives and promise loving obedience.
“But as many as received Him, to them gave He power to become the sons of God, even to those who believe in His name. . .”
That, my dear friends, is the reason we celebrate Christmas. It has nothing to do with presents under the tree, and everything to do with THE gift on a cross. Christmas is not glittery and lavish, it is simple and humble, and should be celebrated by believers who are so filled with God’s love that they can’t help splashing out onto the people around them.
No matter what sorrows you may bring into the Christmas season, lay them at Jesus’ feet. But don’t go away empty-handed—accept his gift of life abundant, or love, joy, peace, goodness, gentleness, kindness, and long-suffering. Make conscious decisions to simplify your traditions, and be brave enough to eradicate those that bring more hassle than joy.
And know this—no matter how secularists try to take Christ out of Christmas, they simply can’t do it. Might as well try to take George Washington out of Washington. Because this is often the loneliest time of the world for some, because it is a time when expectations aren’t met, you have a heaven-sent opportunity to proclaim the Good News to the brokenhearted. As Isaiah the prophet wrote: 1 The Spirit of the Lord GOD is upon me,
because the LORD has anointed me
to bring good news to the poor;[
he has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted,
to proclaim liberty to the captives,
and the opening of the prison to those who are bound;
2 to proclaim the year of the LORD’s favor,
and the day of vengeance of our God;
to comfort all who mourn;
3to grant to those who mourn in Zion—
to give them a beautiful headdress instead of ashes,
the oil of gladness instead of mourning,
the garment of praise instead of a faint spirit;
that they may be called oaks of righteousness,
the planting of the LORD, that he may be glorified.
May God richly bless you this year, and may you have a most blessed Christmas.
~~Angie

A perfect ending to this series, Angie. God's gift to us is really all that matters ... all the rest is superfluous. Have a Blessed Christmas. Clyde
Great series, Angie! I especially love the part about a Christmas miracle. Thanks!
Wow! I'm sharing this one with the kids at our next Bible Study. Thanks and Merry Christmas!
Amen, and amen! As usual, Angie, concise and compelling.
Wishing you joy and peace as we celebrate the greatest Gift.
Mary Kay
Great series, Angie. Thank you for your generous and transparent love for people.
The merriest of Christmases to you -- without one expectation, and every possible delight.
Sibella Giorello
Thank you Sibella, Mary Kay, Nat, Clyde, and anonymous. God bless us, everyone!
Angie

Fiction 5: Rebellious children always come back to the fold on Christmas. Maybe in novels and Hallmark movies, but this doesn't always happen in real life. I don't know if I'll have one, both, or neither of my children home this Christmas. And while I pray for them, I’ve had to accept that as adults, they are responsible for their own decisions. I’m the parent, which means I can’t react in anger (or I’ll hurt them), and I can’t mope (which will only hurt my husband and myself). So if they do come home, I’ll rejoice, but if not . . . it’s their choice. We're having Christmas no matter what. :-)
Fiction 6: Children care more about giving than receiving. LOL! Recently I was with a group of college students, and one of them suggested we go around the circle and say what we would want for Christmas “if price were no object.” They mentioned cars, toys, gadgets . . . and when it came to me, I said I’d be happy with a good idea for my next book. When we live in a materialistic society, how do we prevent children from wanting everything they see? We may not be able to stop the wanting, but we can stop the expecting. I’ve sat through Christmases where my children opened their carefully-chosen presents, sniffed at them, and asked if there was anything else. So—I suggest that you limit the presents under the tree. Consider buying gifts in categories: for each child, one toy to play with, one outfit to wear, one animal to sleep with, one book to read, one CD to listen to . . . etc. If you never establish the custom of having a toy store under the tree, the switch won’t be hard to make. For adults, why do we give anything? One year I bought a farm animal through Heifer.org and told our usual gift recipients that we were giving a farm animal in their name. Instead of giving to us, I’d encourage them to do the same. I loved the practice and may do it again next year. Why do we give each other things we don’t need? (I know, we give to show our love, but we could show the same love by giving to someone who really needs something.)
Fiction 7: At Christmastime, the entire world falls under the spell of “peace on earth.” Neighbors who never speak to you will be kinder and more gentle, because everyone understands Christmas.
Tee hee. Fought over a parking space lately?
A few years ago I wrote a novel called THE DEBT, and the writing changed my life. I stopped being a cloistered Christian and began to be a Neighbor. I stopped working to listen to a neighbor in trouble. When I heard about rumblings in the neighborhood (gossip stirring up trouble), I baked cookies and took them to neighbors’ homes, explaining that as a Christian, I would never want anyone to be upset, so let’s talk.
Last week at church staff meeting, my hubby was told that all pastors were required to be at the church musical. But we had committed to participate in our neighborhood’s progressive dinner—we’re the soup house. So hubby went to the pastor, who understood and gave his blessing for my husband to join the dinner instead. And before those neighbors left my house, I offered them a copy of THE NATIVITY STORY, so they’ll know what Christmas is really all about. Your neighbors—do you even know them? Yet they are your “Jerusalem,” the people you’re to minister to FIRST.
~~Angie

loved this post, Angie
This is full of so many truths, Angie. Love it. The best gift you can give is yourself. Like others we are paring down this year. It's not easy when you want to give your loved ones "the world". My granddaughter is transitioning from a believer in Santa and we've been pointing out stories all around us of "Santa" actions that show the true meaning of giving. She's catching on. My prayers are with you and Gary. Clyde
I'll never, ever forget when I read "The Debt". It was years and years ago. We lived in a nice neighborhood but one night our next door neighbor stabbed someone! When the police cars arrived and the neighbor with a police scanner :) called to tell me what was happening, I fell on my knees with love for Mike...prayer for Mike. "Why would I be surprised when sinners sin?" rang in my ears. The next few months were full of neighbors' gossip. That older couple who always invited us to their church? Oh, the things they said about Mike! The rocks they threw. When Mike came home from jail...awaiting his trial...I was there with cookies. I said, "No judgment, friend. There's been many times if there had been a knife available..." :)
Thanks Angie! I'll be praying for your children, and I'm sure you'll come up with a great book idea!
Ah, Holly . . . . lately all my books have been about . . . well, this is a public forum, so I will say no more. Let's just say that I always write from my life, and lately I've been doing that so much I feel a bit . . . exposed. :-/
And Anonymous, praise God for your willingness to bake those cookies. :-) I could write more on this topic, too, but public forum and all . . .
Love you, Clyde. You're doing the right things. Last night I read some advice from Dave Ramsey that illuminates a big mistake we made . . . wish I'd read him sooner.
Angie
Brave post.
On an email list I am a part of someone just forwarded this to me - and for some strange reason (you'll see why) this totally seemed apropos.
Author Unknown
'Twas the night before Christmas,
and all through the kitchen,
I was cooking and baking,
and moaning and (expletive bleeped out)'.
I've been here for hours,
I can't stop to rest.
This room's a disaster,
just look at this mess!
Tomorrow I've got
Thirty people to feed.
They expect all the trimmings.
Who cares what I need!
My feet are both blistered,
I've got cramps in my legs.
The cat just knocked over
a bowl full of eggs.
There's a knock at the door
and the telephone's ringing;
Frosting drips on the counter
as the microwave's dinging.
Two pies in the oven,
dessert's almost done;
My cookbook is soiled
with butter and crumbs.
I've had all I I can stand,
I can't take anymore;
Then in walks my husband,
spilling rum on the floor.
He weaves and he wobbles,
his balance unsteady;
Then grins as he chuckles
"The eggnog is ready!"
He looks all around
and with total regret,
Says, "What's taking so long.
Aren't you through in here yet?"
As quick as a flash
I reach for a knife;
He loses an earlobe;
I wanted his life!
He flees from the room
in terror and pain
And screams, "MY GOD WOMAN,
YOU'RE GOING INSANE!!"
Now what was I doing,
and what is that smell
Oh darn it's the pies!
They're burned all to hell!
I hate to admit
when I make a mistake,
But I put them on BROIL
instead of on BAKE.
What else can go wrong?
Is there still more ahead?
If this is good living,
I'd rather be dead.
Lord, don't get me wrong,
I love holidays;
It just leaves me exhausted,
all shaky and dazed.
But I promise you one thing,
If I live 'til next year,
You won't find me
pulling my hair out in here.
I'll hire a maid, a cook,
and a waiter;
And if that doesn't work,
I'LL HAVE IT ALL CATERED
Angie, thank you for sharing your wisdom and experience. As you said--public forum so I won't be specific, but I wish I'd had your wise outlook and equanimity on a few Christmases past. Bittersweet season IF I focus on that, but instead I focus on Jesus and others, and the season is a joy. What a gift we've been given in Jesus, Emmanuel.
God bless you and Gary and the kids. Praying for you all. You are a blessing--at Christmas and otherwise.
Mary Kay

Fiction 3. No one is ever lonely at Christmas. Ha! In fact, the opposite is true. Because we carry Norman Rockwell-ian images of what a Christmas family dinner should look like, we look at the empty places around our dining table and feel sad. Well, as Cher says, snap out of it! Stop sitting in that empty house and get out. Volunteer at a soup kitchen, invite a friend over for dinner. Bake cookies and take them to a nursing home. Don’t give yourself time to be lonely, but do take time to rest.
Fiction 4. Families never squabble at Christmas. LOL! Again, feelings seem to be more sensitive during the holidays. So be a peacemaker. If Auntie Sarah and Cousin Sue can’t stand to be in the same room, put them together and ask why they can’t forgive each other since we have all been forgiven so much. And simplify gift-giving. If buying gifts for each and every niece and nephew is a financial strain, buy "family" gifts of edible goodies. Or fill a basket with home-baked goodies (just be sure they're not dieting!)
Fiction 5: Life slows down at Christmas. Maybe on Christmas day, but the days preceding Christmas are a whirlwind of activity. Everyone wants to have a party, and they want you to come. There’s the house to decorate, inside and out, there are gifts to buy and cookies to bake, there’s company coming and trips to take, and all of this happens in a rush! So take time to calm down. Go to a movie. Schedule nights off. Take cat naps. And take a cue from Scarlett O'Hara, who memorized a gracious refusal to many a proposal. ("Dear Sir, I am not unaware of the honor you have bestowed upon me by asking me to become your wife . . ." becomes "Dear friend, I am not unaware of the honor you are giving me by asking me to host your Christmas party, but I am simply unable to join you this year.")
More tomorrow!
~~Angie


Sorry, but this just isn’t true. While “Santa Baby” is a cute song, holidays tend to amplify the stresses between couples. And if you and your spouse have recently separated or divorced, the holidays may seem like a haunting reminder of better times. So what do you do to combat this? You focus on others, not on yourself. If you're single, find another “loner,” and take them out to a Christmas play. Invite them to your Christmas dinner. Make a new friend. If you're married, take some time to relax with your spouse. Look for the positive, not the negative, and laugh a lot. Force yourself if you have to. Laughter is contagious. As my hubby and I say: "If we didn't laugh, we'd be crying."
Fiction 2. No one ever thinks of unhappy events at Christmas. Recent deaths and sorrows will be forgotten.
Oh, no they won’t. You may be haunted by the absence of a child, a spouse, a parent. So when these thoughts come to mind, don’t dwell on the people you're missing, but on celebrating their lives. Tell stories about the funny things they used to say and do. Bring out old photos and reminisce. If a few tears are shed, it’s okay. And remember this—even as the angels celebrated the birth of Christ, God the Father, who lives outside time, saw the agony of the cross and knew he had set his beloved son on an irrevocable path. He understands sorrow.
A special note: You may be grieving infertility, the lack of a child playing beneath your tree. I've been in that place, and it's not fun. May I share a verse with you? "Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but when the desire comes, it is a tree of life." When you look at your Christmas tree, think of the trees of life God has planned for your future . . . and pray that He will lead you to them, in his perfect time.
More tomorrow.
~~Angie

I really like what you have written. Christmas has become a very sad time for me these past few years .
and "A longing fulfilled is sweet to the soul."
Best memory of this year - my fifteen year old squealing for joy at her grandmother's gift.
A tree of life, indeed.
Before I lose it in cyber-space, Angie, I'm putting my birthday wish and prayer here. Seems I cannot get it to work at Facebook. (And if later it posts 5 times, you'll know why. Ha.)
Dear God, please send blessings to my friend Angela today. May they rain on her and bring her joy as she has brought joy to so many of us. We celebrate Your birthday and hers today, Jesus. Thank you!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, Angie, from the sopping west coast! Hope you have an awesome day.
Mary Kay
Thank you, Angie. Succinct, but so profound. Did anyone ever tell you that you have a way with words? ;-)
Mary Kay


What are miracles?
“Miracle” is one of those words we toss around all the time, usually without realizing what we’re saying. “I found this game on sale,” we say. “It was a miracle!”
Was it?
If there’s a hurricane and your family’s house doesn’t get wiped out while your neighbor’s house does, is that a miracle? If a car is heading toward you and swerves out of the way at the last minute, is that a miracle . . . or the driver waking up?
What is a miracle, anyway?
The official definition: a miracle is God’s intervention into the natural world. A miracle is something that only a supernatural God can do. The Bible uses three words along with “miracle” to describe a miraculous event. Sometimes they are called signs, sometimes wonders, and sometimes a miracle-worker is described as someone with power.
When God told Moses to go to Pharaoh and demand that the people of Israel be freed from slavery, Moses said, “Hey—how do I prove to him that I’m speaking for you?” And God said, “I will give you two signs to prove that I’ve sent you.”
In other words, God said, “I’m going to let you do two things that only supernatural power could accomplish.” So when Moses went to the king of Egypt, his shepherd’s staff turned into a serpent, and his hand suddenly became disfigured with leprosy . . . and then miraculously healed.
Later God told Moses, “I will make Pharaoh’s heart stubborn so I can multiply my miraculous signs and wonders in the land of Egypt . . . so the Egyptians will know that I am the Lord.”
God had a purpose for those miracles—they would prove that he was the one true God. God told Moses that he would do many more miracles in the land before the Israelites would leave Egypt. By that time, both the Israelites and the Egyptians would be impressed with God’s power and authority over the land and sea, life and death.
Many times in the Old Testament, God performed miracles to prove himself to prophets and people. Then came a time of silence that lasted four hundred years—there were no prophets, no one performing miracles. And then—God spoke again. He sent his angel to a girl in a town called Nazareth, and told her that even though she had never been with a man, she would have a baby who would grow up to be the Savior of the world.
A pregnant virgin—that’s one of the biggest miracles of all time! But God performed the miracle to show his power . . . and to send Jesus, the savior who would be both fully human and fully God.
When Jesus began his earthly ministry at the age of thirty, he began with a miracle—at a friend’s wedding, he turned jars of water into jars of fine wine. He went throughout the country healing the sick, raising the dead, feeding thousands of people with only a handful of bread and fish. Why did he do miracles? To help the people, certainly, but also as a sign—he wanted the people to see that the Messiah had come, that God was demonstrating his power and authority.
Jesus gave his life when he was crucified on a cross. He died there—from the wounds of his crucifixion. Just to be sure he was really dead, soldiers also thrust a spear into his heart. And then—the most important miracle of all time. Jesus rose from the dead. The resurrection was a sign to everyone—Jesus was the Son of God, and he has the power to resurrect all of us from death. If we believe in him, we will live with him in heaven.
A genuine miracle can have three purposes:
1. to glorify God
2. to demonstrate that a person is really speaking for God
3. to provide evidence for belief in God.
A miracle is a supernatural event that would not—or could not—have happened unless God intervened.
So . . . is it a miracle that you got an A on your math test? Is it a miracle that your dog came home after being lost for two days? Probably not. But sometimes God works through natural ways to answer our prayers and work his will.
The Lord could have given you strength to study . . . so that’s why you got an A. God could have impressed that stranger to grab your dog and remember the “Lost Pet” sign he saw on the telephone pole, so that’s how your dog came home. Sometimes when we pray for the sick, God works through the doctors who perform surgery and give medicines that help the patient get better. God often works through his people to carry out his will. He also works through nature.
But sometimes he does something that ignores the laws of nature and logic—he does something only a supernatural God could do.
And that’s a miracle.
Memory Verse: “And God confirmed the message by giving signs and wonders and various miracles and gifts of the Holy Spirit whenever he chose” (Hebrews 2:4).
Discussion questions:
1. Read the following verses and see if you can discover the reason for the miracle:
· the turning of the water into wine: John 2:11
· the raising of Lazarus from the dead: John 11:40
· all of Jesus’ miracles: Acts 2:22
· Jesus’ miracles: Hebrews 2:4
· for whose sake did Jesus perform miracles? John 6:2
· why do we read about Jesus’ miracles? John 20:30-31.
2. Have you ever experienced a genuine miracle in your life? What was it? Look at the three purposes for miracles—to glorify God, to demonstrate that a person is really speaking for God, or to provide evidence for belief in God. Did your miracle fulfill any of these purposes?
3. If you haven’t experienced a genuine miracle, do you think you ever will? When might that be? (Think about things still to come in the future . . .)

Thought-provoking, Angie. I may have to re-think my definition of a miracle. Definitely experienced powerful answers to prayer and other amazing things I often thought of as miracles. But have they all been outside the laws of nature...I'll have to think. I was part of a miraculous answer to prayer when a missionary friend who'd been in an accident and had broken hip and leg was healed within a few hours between X-rays and surgery! Me, I had to go through the surgery. :-)
Thanks again for sharing your wisdom with us. And I'm glad your hand is better.
God bless,
Mary Kay


This is really clever ... but I still prefer Luke's version! =) Clyde
That's very cool! I love the line, "It's a BOY!" Makes me tear up!
So clever. The good news is the same no matter what media we use. Hallelujah!
Blessings,
Mary Kay
Wonderful. Thank you for sharing this. The part where Joseph starts writes "hurting" and then changes it to "confused" and the part where 23 people unfriend him were touching and telling.


What wonderful pictures! I just wish I could have gotten it big enough to read the captions. Even making it full-screen didn't increase the size of the book.
Your house is absolutely beautiful! Will you come decoraate mine?! I'm sure it will only take the Energizer Author 30 minutes or so!
I put this together for my neighbors. :-) The hardest part was finding a night when I wouldn't freeze my fingers off while going out to take the pictures! We're in the middle of a cold snap!
What a beautiful neighborhood! I love those houses.
Lovely, Angie. Your neighbors are blessed. I enjoy looking at all the decorations. Not many folks put them up in our area. (Hope you took the photos BEFORE you injured your hand.)
Blessed Christmas,
Mary Kay
Peace on Earth to men and dogs! LOVE it! Clyde


Keyboards, bells ... I have a friend here whose son is a bass player. How much easier would it be for him when traveling with the TCU Symphony to just pack a little iPad and get the same effect. Absolutely cool! Clyde
You're right, Angie. This is WAY beyond cool!!


The bulldog shaking its jowls in slo-mo brought back memories. LOL!
I miss Paco.
Holy Moly! The veracity of the Eiffel Tower one left me shaking my head, and the shots of dogs climbing trees had my kitties sending up prayers of thanksgiving that they are indoor cats! Thanks for sharing, Angie. There are some mighty amazing sights to be seen here. Clyde


That sounds delicious!
Sounds and looks delish. And today I hear even Florida has plenty of frozen strawberries!
Looks like you'd have to make a lot to use all that Frangelico.
Thanks, Angie. Blessed Advent,
Mary Kay
Angie, sounds delightful! I love strawberries :)
Miriam
YUMMERS!
My daughter, the strawberry freak, was quick to jot down the recipe! Thx for sharing. Clyde




This Loretta person sounds fabulous! What a great idea, Peek-a-Boo books about Jesus. Because Jesus is always around, even when we can't see Him!
I have a recipe for strawberry soup, but it's basically liquid strawberry yogurt, I think.
Thank you, Angie, for your reviews! Seems like grandmas like them too! ;)
Thank you for taking the time to "read" them. I hope they allow every child to know that Jesus loves them now and always.


Week Thirteen: How, When, and Why did God Make the Universe?
“In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth.” Genesis 1:1.
How did God create the universe? His word gives us the answer: “Then God said . . . ‘Let there be light’ and there was light.
Then God said, “Let there be . . .” and there was.
The psalmist says, “Let every created thing give praise to the Lord, for he issued his command, and they came into being” (Ps. 148:5).
How did God created the world and the universe beyond? He spoke, and it became real. He created all things by the power of his Word. And who is called the Word of God? Jesus. John tells us, “In the beginning the Word already existed. The Word was with God, and the Word was God. He existed in the beginning with God. God created everything through him, and nothing was created except through Him. The Word gave life to everything that was created, and his life brought light to everyone” (John 1:1-4).
In other words, Jesus was with God, and together they created the universe. Nothing exists that did not come from God.
Can we create like God? We can make things with our hands—if you give me fabric and thread, I could make a shirt. Give me a computer and I could create a book. But is my “creation” like God’s?
Not really. Because when humans “create” something, we require the raw materials to begin with. You can’t build a rocket without engineers and materials. I can’t make a shirt without fabric and thread. I can’t even create a book without paper, something to write with, and my imagination—and my imagination is a gift from God.
Everything we use to make things comes ultimately from God. He gave us the planet from which we get our raw materials, and he gives us the knowledge, imagination, and tools with which we come up with ideas and concepts for new projects. Even our creativity is really a reflection of God’s creativity.
But when God creates, he makes something out of nothing. He says to empty space, “be earth and sea,” and suddenly a planet is formed. He says to darkness, “Be light,” and light it is.
Even life comes from God. Many people today love debating about when life begins—is it at birth? At conception, when an egg and sperm meet for the first time? No, neither answer is correct. Life is a gift from God—a gift from the Word. The Bible says, “The Word gave life to everything that was created,” and he gave life to Adam in the Garden of Eden.
The Bible says, “Then the Lord God formed the man from the dust of the ground. He breathed the breath of life into the man’s nostrils, and the man became a living person” (Genesis 2:7). When God made Eve, he didn’t scoop mud together in the shape of a woman—and he didn’t breathe life into her nostrils. Instead, “while the man slept, the Lord God took out one of the man’s ribs and closed up the opening. Then the Lord God made a woman from the rib” (Gen. 2:21-22). God took living material from the man and used it to make woman.
In the same way, when a human life is created now, a living egg and a living sperm unite to create another life. This isn’t the beginning of life, but a continuation of the gift of life God gave to humans in the Garden of Eden.
We often talk about people who “create” things, but the “creation” humans do is really a weak reflection of God’s something-from-nothing power.
When did God create the universe? In the beginning. No, not in God’s beginning, because he has no beginning. But at man’s beginning. At the beginning of recorded time. At the beginning of the universe.
Some people believe that the six “days” described in the first chapter of Genesis are six twenty-four hour days. Other people believe that the six days are six eras, or six ages. The Hebrew word “day” (yom) often means a long period of time. Second Peter 3:8 tells us that “a day is like a thousand years to the Lord, and a thousand years is like a day.” And whether or not the time of creation consists of six literal days or six longer periods of time, other Scriptures point to “yom” as longer than twenty-four hours.
Genesis 2:4 says, “These [are] births of the heavens and of the earth in their being prepared, in the day of Jehovah God's making earth and heavens—Young’s Literal Translation). In this verse, the word day, or yom, covers all of creation. Psalm 95:7–14 and Heb. 4:4–11 refer to the seventh day as continuing from creation to the present. In the second chapter of Genesis, Adam was alone for some time tending the garden before Eve was created. So it is logical to assume that the “day” in Genesis is not a twenty-four hour day, but a period of unspecified length. Perhaps these six days correspond to the six main geological ages that scientists have uncovered.7
To further support this theory, consider that the beginning of plant life on the third day required time for the plants to grow to maturity. God could create big plants if he wanted to, but the scripture says: “And the earth bringeth forth tender grass, herb sowing seed after its kind, and tree making fruit (whose seed [is] in itself) after its kind; and God seeth that [it is] good (Gen. 1:12, Young’s Literal Translation). In other words, God supernaturally created plant life, but these plants referred to on the third day were producing fruit and growing. That takes time.
Another reason to believe that the days are longer than twenty-four hours is the Bible’s account of everything that happened on the sixth day. On that day alone, God created the land animals, he created man (who was alone for a while), he brought all the animals to man for naming (a process that would have taken over six hundred hours if Adam spent only two minutes on each of 15,000 living species), Adam searched for a mate for himself and found none, God put Adam to sleep and took out a rib, and Eve was brought to Adam who accepted her as his wife. Whew! That was one busy day!
I don't want to argue this point, because we're not going to know for sure until we get to Heaven. But whether you believe creation happened on six days or in six ages, the important thing is this: God created the earth and everything in it. He created man from earth, not from a monkey. Man is a special creation from God, not a mistake or the result of some evolutionary process.
Why did God create the earth and everyone on it? Revelation 4:11 gives us the answer: “You are worthy, O Lord our god, to receive glory and honor and power. For you created all things, and they exist because you created what you pleased.”
God created the earth and all people because he wanted to. Because he wanted to love us and fellowship with us. And he has reasons we may never understand . . . until He explains them to us in heaven.
Memory Verse: “You are worthy, O Lord our God, to receive glory and honor and power. For you created all things, and they exist because you created what you pleased” (Rev. 4:11).
Discussion questions:
1. Can you create a tangible, touchable thing by speaking it into being? Maybe you could create a misunderstanding . . . but even then you’d be using other people’s feelings to achieve your result. You could create a lie . . . but you’d have to begin with the truth before you could twist it. Everything man “creates” springs from something else, but from nothing God can create anything he wishes to create.
2. Do you believe God created the world in six days or six ages? What are your reasons for this belief? (Remember—the Bible isn’t clear on this. And the topic isn’t worth arguing over. The important thing is to realize that God did create the world in six stages, just as the Bible describes.)
3. Why do you think God created the world? Why do you think God created you?
7 Gleason L. Archer, A Survey of Old Testament Introduction (Chicago: Moody Press, 1994), 196–203.

Hi, Angela. This subject always interests me. Often I just keep my views to myself, but I'm so glad to see that the famous "Dr. Hunt" agrees with my views on the six days of creation :) I read a whole book by Gerald Schroeder about how if you take into consideration the relativity of time (a proven phenomena) and then do all these complex mathematical equations, the newest discoveries about the origins of the universe and earth perfectly matches the Biblical account.
I have no problem believing that God created in twenty-four hour earth days. I'm sure he's well capable of that. However, I think a quality reading of the Genesis account leans in the other direction. To me it's more exciting to see how the Bible and the newest science align.
Another example to add to yours, the sun and moon aren't created until the fourth day. Even as a child I knew something was up with that. Well, science now tells us that while the sun and moon existed at the time when there was some small plant life on the earth, that a thick cloud of gas would have kept them from being visible from the surface of the earth until the "fifth" day when animal life was created.




LOVE it, Angie. That is really cool ... making stats understandable through such a clever graphic display. Yes, we will always have the poor among us, but their poverty appears to have risen to less dire levels by the looks of this. I've seen stats of American poor vs. those in other countries and that is amazing, too. Thanks for sharing yet one more fascinating piece of information! Clyde
Thanks for sharing, Angie. Very interesing.
That was fascinating. I would like to see him separate out the US, like Clyde said and see how our poor compare to other poor.


Awww...it was great to see Pastor Derric on the video! (You, too, Angie!)
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Wow. that was exhausting to watch!
You're right. The eyes do stay the same throughout.
Very cool.


This had me rolling on the floor. So very cleverly done ... and hysterical! Must share with other animal lovers! Clyde
Very cute. :)



THat's great! Love #1!
Your picture today is from Schonbrunn- I've been there at least twice!
Really, Susan? I had no idea where the pic was from--I was just looking for something even CLOSE to the garden of Eden. :-)
(I answered you once but it has been et by the computer)
Yep. This is from the back of the castle looking over the incredibly beautiful grounds. There is a Zoo off to the right where my father in law bought ice cream for my children :)


In no particular order, Angela Hunt is a novelist, teacher, nana, mother, wife, mastiff owner, reader, musician, student, aspiring theologian, and bubble gum connoisseur. The things that enter her life sooner or later find their way into her books, hence "a life in pages."



and he plays the banjo. He's quite good!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l31MSpojWTA
I'm glad I have a song! and I like the Steep Canyon Rangers...Steve Martin is great.
Aww, Austin City Limits filmed right here on the University of Texas campus!
That is hilarious. I'm grateful that the Lord put a song in my heart!
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